A1.Traditionally,
your Father should be by your Mother's side but I think
on your day, everyone will understand why he's with your
brother so
personally, I would say you can let this tradition go! It'll
help your brother to be included in the proceedings which
is more important than
what's expected.
Perhaps a nice touch would be for your brother to escort your Father to his seat alongside your Mother once all the guests are seated.
Congratulations again and I'm sure you're
brother is going to be absolutely wonderful on the day.
(Answered
by Tamryn Kirby)
A2.I believe
that you should have your wedding your way! If your mother
is happy to be on her own for a short part of the day, then
all is well...I presume that we're talking about the groom's
family, as otherwise the father/mother might be giving away
the bride and trying to be in two places at once!!
It is so fabulous that an increasing number of weddings are relaxed and tailored around each individual couples' requirements. If you need your father to assist your brother in 'ushing' then why not... it's personal to you, so I say go for it!!
Have a fabulous day...
(Answered
by Emma Pirie)
A3.
I understand that you want your brother
to be involved which is a lovely idea, but perhaps you should
ask someone else to help him, as in my opinion I think your
father should be with your mother. Keep in mind that your
father will have other duties on your special day. If your
father has volunteered this without you mentioning this
to him I am sure it would be fine. On the other hand if
you ask or have asked your father to do this, he may not
want to upset you by refusing your request on your special
day. Even under these circumstances I would not ask my father
to be an usher.
(Answered
by Allison Safadi)
A4.It is
a lovely idea to have your father and brother as ushers
on your wedding day. I am sure your father will be delighted
to have a more active
role in the wedding. As long as you make sure that your
mother is comfortable with this then go ahead!
(Answered
by Suzie Gillespie)