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Getting the Entertainment Right!
Entertainment – don’t
skimp on it!
Memory is a funny thing. Rightly, the bride and
groom are the centre of attention throughout their big day, and
guest’s memories will always be of the happy couple. Oddly
enough, the second most remembered part of a wedding day –
by the guests anyway – is usually the reception and / or
evening entertainment. So, it’s worth spending time pondering
on how to make this part of your wedding day go smoothly and be
remembered with a smile by all who attended.
For an evening function, It’s the last part
of the day and takes place when everybody is at their most relaxed.
Everything has gone according to plan, the service was fabulous,
the sun shone for the photographs and the best man even remembered
the ring! It’s all over bar the party – and that’s
when the entertainment you have selected will need to be high
quality. The last thing anybody wants is a DJ who mumbles, a band
that are too loud / too quiet, or who play music that nobody recognises.
Of course, your budget should be part of the process
when planning your evening entertainment, but there are other
factors that you should think about.
Many people opt automatically for a DJ as the simplest
and – probably - the least expensive option for evening
entertainment. There’s nothing wrong with that – most
DJs are good at what they do, and understand the sort of music
to be played. Make sure they do know what to play though - an
evening of heavy metal may be OK for some, but for the majority
you need middle of the road, classic songs from the 60’s
(what an era for music!) onwards, some smoochy stuff (it is a
wedding after all) and some good old rock and roll for the bridesmaids
to show off to!
So, you’ve decided to have a DJ – have
you heard him /her before? What is he like? Does he speak clearly?
Does he speak too much (it is definitely possible to speak too
much!!)? Does he speak too little – perhaps that’s
a good thing? Are they going to encourage Aunty Martha to play
silly games – and is that what you want?
Check things out before you book is the obvious
thing to do – if you’re not sure, go through a reputable
entertainment agency who should make sure you get what you have
asked for.
If you want to add a bit more memory to the evening,
why not think about booking a local band as well as a DJ? It’s
a great mix – the DJ can keep the party going while the
band are having a rest (most bands will play two sets of around
45 to 60 minutes each) and, of course, the DJ is on hand to get
the momentum started and to close the evening off with something
suitable (but why is it always New York, New York?).
A band is something a bit special. Live music –
and I do NOT mean a singer and a machine playing a backing track
- just cannot be beaten for giving guests something to enjoy –
if they want to dance, they’ll dance and if they just want
to sit back and watch, that’s OK as well (some people will
love this – dancing is not for everybody even if they love
music!) Even just walking in to a room and seeing the set all
ready for the musicians to begin – it’s just something
that gives guests a bit of a tingle and sense of expectation
Picking the right band can almost be as nerve-racking
as picking the right DJ. Use a reputable agent by all means, but
it’s also worth checking out relevant websites such as entertainers
directories / wedding organisers and taking a direct approach.
(Bands like this approach as they don’t have to pay agency
fees….) Ask the venue if they can recommend a band that
have either played there before, or who they know will provide
a good service. A popular, well booked band will not necessarily
need an agent…..
If possible, find a band that play the classic covers
that all your guests will recognise. This will at least ensure
there will be something for everyone. If you can, take the time
to see the band perform before booking them. A good band will
have a strong working relationship with their clients and will
be able to make sure you can “sneak in” to a private
function they are performing at. Alternatively, some bands will
do “open to all” gigs at local venues, so check out
their gig schedule. At worst, you should ask them for a demo CD
– good bands will invest in studio quality demo discs and
will have no problem in giving you a copy. Always make sure they
will play the stuff you want to hear…..ask them for a play
list. Most bands will be happy to perform songs you ask for –
but give them a few weeks notice to rehearse things first!
Bear in mind that if the band has lots of bookings,
it’s a good sign! Of course, this also means they will be
a popular choice, so think ahead – a good band will be booking
anything up to 12months in advance. Yes, really!
Bands need space to operate. Most venues are OK
with this - they’ve seen it all before - but it’s
worth making sure that space is going to be OK. The band will
bring more equipment than you have ever seen in your life. A good
band will bring stage lighting as well as their instruments, the
amplifiers, the speakers, the obligatory 2 miles of cabling, and
all the other gadgets (guitarists are the worse for gadgets –
check out the array of effects pedals near any guitarists’
feet!).
Some bands will use a Sound Engineer to “mix”
the sound they produce. Talk to the band and ask if they do indeed
use an Engineer – if they do, ask for details of any difference
in costs for using / not using the Sound Engineer. If the difference
is not too great, and you can afford it, invest in it. Believe
me, a Sound Engineer can make a huge difference to the overall
quality. It works like this:
When the band arrives and have plugged everything
in, they will want to do a sound check, Without a Sound Engineer,
the sound check will be a once-only event. Using a Sound Engineer
will mean an ongoing sound check and adjustment throughout the
performance, thus ensuring that the balance and overall quality
of sound – including highlighting particular instruments
when needed for solos etc. - is right for every song. The acoustics
of the room can play an important part here as well – when
the band do the initial sound check, the room will be empty but
once it’s full of people the dynamics of the acoustics and
overall sound quality can change substantially – again,
the Sound Engineer will make sure that things sound as they should
Pick a band that will work with you. For example,
it may be that your wedding breakfast is in the same room as the
evening function, so the band will need to set up whilst the wedding
ceremony is under way and come back in the evening so as to avoid
setting up their equipment while your guests are in the room.
Some bands get a bit mopey when asked to do this early set-up
– so make sure you have picked a band who don’t mind
putting themselves out for you. You’re the customer –
and the customer is always right! Ideally, you will have a single
point of contact to deal with - he or she will make sure that
the rest of the band are up to speed with arrangements and any
fine details.
Once the evenings over, the band will want to clear
the stuff away. All bands hate doing this. Pick a band that will
clear the stuff away in a pleasant, unobtrusive way. A good band
will wait until the DJ has finished and the house lights have
come up before moving the gear away.
How much should you expect to pay? This is a really
difficult question. A high number of function bands are not professional
musicians, but are excellent amateurs doing what they love as
a bit of a sideline. On average, expect to pay around £100
per head for the band and Sound Engineer. So, a cost of around
£500 is probably reasonable - and, in the big scheme of
things for a day that will cost thousands, is it unreasonable
to pay that little bit extra to ensure high quality entertainment
that you and your guests will remember for years?
Have a great wedding and a fabulous day!
Article kindly provided by
Mike Cushing of “The Cube”, a function band based
in North West England
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